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Burnt Eliot's avatar

It is often said of autistic people that they are overwhelmed by feelings.

And it is often said of Aspies (Autistic Asperger's) that we lack a sense of feelings, particularly awareness of the feelings of others. But, that is not true.

I can be articulate about thoughts and ideas, in words and other gestures, but scarcely at all about feeling and never convincingly, because feeling saturates me and everything within me while words float superficially. That is often why Aspies stumble or get anxious in conversation, because of saturation and not because of absence. Words cannot describe this feeling, and neither can they name it well.

Most who hear us talking to each other are surprised at what seems almost telepathic connection. Conversations made of simple clues and subtle gesture are like sharing the meanings found in ocean waves. We know it in each other. We often recognize it walking in the streets. But it is difficult for us to match our actions to other people’s understanding. Is this feeling different from what you mean?

You say, “When we are coming from our open heart, it becomes much easier to do what is best for all and not just for one.” What would help us do this better? I notice I write 'feelings' but you write 'feeling.' How are these different?

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C.J. Heck's avatar

Thanks for the restack, Robert Cosmar. 💋💋💋

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